27.8.17

Lunch break

Knowing each other is something that needs effort. The effort in so many ways to lighten up the sense. The knowing-phase-relationship sense (i dont know how to explain it correctly but yeah i dont expect anyone to know it too. so....). The effort that takes much time in order to feel 'owned' each other. Well, the effort it self is not a one-sided roles. The healthy one will make the role as balance as possible and it is two-sided roles. So, when things go wrong, instead of victimize one person, it is better to have equal rights for both side.

I see the effort is like the one who pull the trigger. You what i'm sayin' right? The one who initiate the obligation in his/her busy day. The one who 'Release the Kraken' first. It is also how it is done in the beginning. Let me give you an example. I see that keeping communication well is one of the essential part of the efforts. It is like a vitamin to keep the positive energy. What is more exciting than receiving a text from someone who ask your day? Even you don't ask him/her to send it but it is the real vitamin that may significantly boost your energy. Or, somebody who really wants to know you better than anyone questioning your personality, your hobbies, your day, your families, even your pet.

If you are a man, do it to everyone you loves although you are that one-sided-guy. Make sure you don't reveal that you are hoping the same treatment. Repeat that then sleep tight.

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